What do YOU want when it comes to love??

I am going to cut right to the chase …

My mission is to open you up to possibilities so that you can have amazing love in an unconventional way, YOUR way.

While most people open conversations with surface type dialogue, that is definitely not my bag. I go real deep and real honest, real quick.

More often than not we go into a relationship and are not radically honest with ourselves as to what we want.

If you do not know what exactly you want, then you will never know when it actually shows up and/or will end up settling for something you definitely do not want!

NO MORE SETTLING PEOPLE!

I started using the following analogy recently that I feel is spot on when it comes to choosing your life partner:

If you were looking to hire the CEO for your company (one of the most important roles you could fill), would you pick just anyone? Hell no you wouldn’t!!

Why is it ANY different for your life partner?

Potential candidates for the CEO position would have to go through multiple rounds of interviews, pass a probationary period, be super aligned with the company’s vision, mission and goals … you get the drift.

SAME principle applies for your love life and the person that will fill the role of long haul guy (or girl).

There is nothing wrong with having a clear idea of what you want (aka the list). There is everything right with it! The problem comes from the expectations and being stuck to it.

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Besides if we can’t be that way (radically honest) with ourselves about our desires, how could we ever be that way with our potential partners?

This inability to look at and be honest about what we want causes so much of the miscommunication and heartache we so often experience in relationships.

It does NOT have to be this way.

One thing I have done for aeons now is write out what I want in an ideal partner and an ideal relationship.

That shit WORKS! Believe me!

When I look back at the three major relationships I have had in my life, it was eerie how spot on they were compared to the lists I had written prior to being in them.

Each relationship caused me to learn, grow and as a result refine my list afterward (thanks to doing the ever important relationship autopsies).

You may be wondering if I am in a relationship currently. To answer your question, no, I am not.

I ended my most recent relationship in July of this year (2013). He was one of those major relationships I mentioned above and was everything on my list.

However there was still a lot that did not work for us, mainly that he was not ready or able to give me all I needed in a relationship (you guessed it, that was NOT stated on my list).

Because we were so open and communicative (definitely ON the list), we both decided it was not working. It was one of the most amicable break ups and such a healthy relationship all around.

Since I have had some time to process my breakup, I am ready to get back out there. There has been so many revelations, especially as I am single again and about to hop back on that ‘dating horse.’

But I have already updated my own Rad Love Wish List and feel excited to see what, or more accurately WHO, will show up THIS TIME!

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But enough about me … time to focus on you.

What do YOU want when it comes to dating, relationships and sex?

If you could have your dream relationship, what would that look like??

Take a couple of minutes and allow yourself to dream about it. Literally close your eyes and pIcture it. Go into great detail with your vision and be prepared to paint that picture with words really soon.

When you are ready to start making some magic happen in that department, i.e. create your Rad Love Wish List, I have just the Worksheet for you! 10 years in the making but it is finally complete.

All you have to do is sign up for the newsletter before and you get the brand spankin new Rad Love Wish List Worksheet pronto!

Excited yet? I know I am for you!!!

You are an amazing and beautiful being. You deserve amazing love. And you get to create the exact life you want.

So what are you waiting for? Get your worksheet by entering your info below and wish away.

Do it NOW!

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P.S. Maybe it’s time you and I talk. I can help you look at love in a whole new way, which will have you feeling a million times more excited. Not to mention more confident and  attractive ;)

Head on over to my Work With Me page to find out a couple of ways I can be your partner in finding love.

I also love virtual coffee dates to see if we are a good fit. Set up your 20 minute sample coaching session or tarot card pull by going to the Contact page.

 

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