Believing in Magic … Especially After Heartbreak

I have had the latest Coldplay song Magic literally on repeat the last few days. For those of you who have not heard it, take a moment and do so now. Don’t worry, I’m not going anywhere. I can wait. (Twiddling thumbs oh so patiently) Just to cover all of the bases I am also […]

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Following my Heart towards Tarot and Burlesque

Why does it feel like such a scary thing to live your life exactly how YOU want to live it? I have been asking myself this a lot lately. Especially because my life is moving in a way that is more and more aligned with my dream version of it and you would think I […]

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The Unexpected Perks of Exploring an Open Relationship

I had been intrigued and fascinated by open relationships for a number of years, even if it was wondering if I would ever find a partner who was down for having a threesome every once in a blue moon or being cool with me hooking up with girls from time to time. The thought was […]

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Saying Fuck It Does a Heart Good

I love birthday week. The most recent of early birthday celebrations was an awesome dinner and drinks with a dear friend. Richard who I have known for 20+ years is all about us having adventures together and living it up and boy did he pick a pretty swanky spot. We were definitely dressed to impress. […]

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Is Sex and Tarot the new Peanut Butter and Chocolate?

Last night some crazy shit went down. So crazy I am still a bit speechless myself. Soaking it in slowly but surely. Have you ever had an experience of stumbling into a situation where you thought “How the hell did I get here?” but simultaneously felt like “This is a bit overwhelming but beyond amazing!” […]

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Old Fashioned? Yes. Hopeless? Never!

Considering the fact that I have had my heart broken 3 times … 3 intense and strong times, you would think I should be done with love. But I’m not. Nowhere near done. Actually I think I believe in love more now than I ever have before. I tear up when any of the people […]

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Why I Gave Online Dating its Pink Slip

How long would you say is a good amount of time to give something a go before you let it go? 1? 5? 10 years? How about 15? Well that is how long I have been online dating. 15 years. On and off of course, but it has been almost half of my life. Picture […]

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Going, going, back, back, to Celibacy, Celibacy

I was thinking that when I came back to Southern California I would be in hog heaven when it came to my sex life. I envisioned feeling carefree and enjoying myself and my body again. But actually the complete opposite has been true. It baffled me at first. I couldn’t understand why. But when I […]

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Who are you? No. Really.

Has the following ever happened to you when in a relationship? You lose yourself or forget who you are! You give up a lot of what you love. You are constantly bending and compromising. You go along with whatever your partner wants. You feel there is no room for your needs. You feel blindsided when […]

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